Most definitely not! What an understatement. A kiss is not just a kiss- it is so much more. A kiss is perhaps the most romantic (not sexual) activity a couple can do together. Kissing can do wonders for your dating relationship.
But, many people, who have been out of the dating game for a long time either because they were married or in a long term relationship, are finding themselves re-entering the world of dating and it may feel like a three ring circus. Their minds are crowded with questions like –
· Should I be demure or should I be assertive? (for women)
· Since I’ve been out of the kissing loop for years, are there new ways to kiss?
· Are their new kissing rules?
· What if I mess up that first kiss?
· How do I know, what the guy ( or gal) wants from a kiss?
So many questions!! But not to worry, it is solvable. Read on to find out a bit more about kissing. Who knows, might even learn a few new pointers.
People have different preferences for being kissed and getting kissed so it is important that you discover these little differences pretty early on. The first kiss is still a special kiss, no matter how old you are.
Now for the ladies reading this, many of you wonder and have even asked -
How do you kiss a man?
Most women know that kissing can do wonders to ignite passion and do wonders for your love relationship. My dating tip for all of you this: If you fancy that guy, kiss him! Now I am not saying you should make that first move. That is a choice that only you can make. Some men will be flattered that you kiss them first. Just be careful about the approach; no man will complain about female attention unless it is unwanted, too aggressive or he is attached.
If you are already in a relationship with him ( I mean like he refers to you as his girlfriend), you may want to side over to your guy and get cuddly with him. Lean up against him, feel the sparks between you fly, engage his eyes then lean in for the kiss, slow but sure, flirtatious yet profound. Pull away and feel him be drawn to you! Yes, let that kiss be the beginning of a sizzling romantic encounter for the two of you.